Relationships are hard work to maintain, and if both parties aren't willing to put in the work, it can cause a relationship breakup. For most people, this is a mind-numbing experience that can make you lose months of your life. What you need to learn is how to move on, and how to move on quickly.
First, know that you and your ex may or may not receive closure on this relationship. For you, closure may be something you get to on your own, but it will take time to feel that way. While you're moving on, you will feel anger and bitterness towards your ex and your past relationship, but you can use that to help you move forward.
Once you've gotten past the point of crying over every memory, take the time to work on yourself before you find a new love interest. Have you always wanted to do something that you couldn't do while you were in a relationship? Do it now. It may have been a trip overseas, or wanting to run a marathon, but the sheer act of actually doing it will give you the confidence you need to move on.
No matter how you feel about your ex now, there was a point when you loved them. After a relationship breakup, it's better to remember the good times than to hang on to the anger. Not only will it make you feel better, but it will make you seem like the bigger person to those who know you.
Now may also be the time for you to find new interests, as you never know how these new interests will shape your life. You may take up a new hobby and meet your future mate while doing it. Any new experience will help you shape into a new person who will be ready for a new relationship again someday.
A relationship breakup is life changing, but you can use it to shape your life in a better way. Use it to become a stronger person, and you won't have any regrets in life.
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